July 1, 2011. The day Austin Bragg spread his wings and flew the coop!! He and his long time friend, Taylor moved into a garage apartment in Gainesville ... on Lake Lanier. What a tough life it must be for these two kids. 10 minutes from school and work and literally steps away from fun in the sun on the lake!
I knew this day would come. It just seems like it arrived much faster than I had expected. He is 19 years old, and 19 years is a rather long time, but it seems like just yesterday that we brought him home and began our parenting journey. You worry so much about them as they are growing up. There are days you're reminded why animals sometimes eat their young. And then there are (mostly) days you beam with pride over this creation you brought into the world. You spend your days teaching them so many things about life and situations and people and you desire that they go into this world empowered to be a positive contributor to society, ready to make good decisions, and able to make it on their own.
The really good news is that I didn't and haven't had a major emotional break-down with Austin moving out. Don't get me wrong ... I miss him like crazy! We all do. At first, I felt like I was missing an arm or leg. It was like something just wasn't quite right, but quickly I noticed my food bill reduced significantly and it's been smooth sailing ever since. :-)
Andy and I are happy and content and mostly have no regrets with what we instilled in him during those first 19 years. It really makes letting go of the reins a lot easier - to feel like he is equipped to go into the world and make good decisions on his own. Of course, he still hears from me via text or phone call .... be careful on the dock ... be careful driving to school ... make sure you're eating healthy. That's what mom's are for - right?
... Austin at his new digs ...
... Austin at his new digs ...
